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Your daughter.
Our daughter.
Conceived in a love affair.
Your beautiful daughter
With the long eyelashes
And cornrows in her hair.
The one that you sometimes visit at my home
But won’t take to yours.
The daughter who cries to go with daddy
But you leave standing in the door.
The one that I had to meet you on the corner to pick up,
Because your other baby’s mama
Was makin’ a fuss.
I was coming from the hospital.
It was cold that night.
I took my baby girl with me,
But that shit wasn’t right.
The same daughter that you can’t take to your house,
Because you’re too worried
About hearing wifey’s mouth.
And you just can’t bring her by
Unannounced.
Only provide child support
In small amounts.
I guess
It’s so that bitch won’t notice,
But let me tell you this
About your daughter.
The little secret
That we both laid
Down and made,
And said proudly
That it was without regret.
She’s growing,
Our little girl.
Growing up so nice.
Soon she’ll be able to tell you
What’s missing in her life.
And it won’t be baking cookies,
Or someone there on school trips.
It won’t be someone to scold her
About that little hand on her hip.
She won’t be missing someone to give
Structure, love and care.
She’ll be missing her father
Because you weren’t there.
And I’m not telling you this
To make you feel bad or to point out your mistakes.
I just want you to step up
Before it’s too late.
She needs that sense of humor you have
To make her laugh
When she falls off her bike.
She needs you to be there to tell her that you love her
More than that boy she likes.
Just be there to put your arms around her and secure that father-daughter bond.
When you check your messages and see that she’s called
Pick up the phone and respond.
And tell that woman
That you love so much,
That your baby girl needs
Your love and your trust.
Tell her your daughter is your joy and your pride,
And that’s something
That you should have never had to hide.
Tell her, your girl needs her daddy
And her cries will no longer be ignored.
Tell her you are going to be there
To give your daughter
What she has always deserved before.
You’re going to give her
Love
Advice
Discipline
A shoulder to lean on.
A rock to hold her up.
A hug to cheer her when she is down.
Conversation that will be remembered even when she is grown.
A hand to hold,
And whatever molding she can’t get from her mother
You’ll be the other
Person she looks up to.
Without it seeming like she is a bother
You
Will give her
A father.
And when she grows
She won’t go
From man
To man
Looking for love in the wrong place,
Because you will have stepped in
Before it was too late.